For years, my ex-wife and I have taken different approaches to raising our children — our son in particular.

In short, we somehow fell into the stereotypical familiar gender roles, with her yelling and threatening punishment at every transgression yet rarely following through.

I, on the other hand, would fire a single warning shot but enforcing whatever punishment that was threatened.

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