Steel's views on how to manage the office romance are as follows:

Know your company's policy on office dating. Every company is different and there may be consequences from the start. You might find yourself in a situation where you have to quit your job or change locations for the fire to keep burning.
Keep it professional. Refrain from the cute touching, kissing and other PDA. Your co-workers will appreciate you both for being discreet.
Assume that the staff knows, but don't flaunt it. Back in the day people got a kick out of the office romance game. Not anymore. Many may be offended. Their opinion, whether you like it or not, counts.

Let the boss know before she/he finds out from someone else. Your professional attitude will go a long way in maintaining the boss's respect.
Consider what might happen if the relationship doesn't work out. Give it more than a minute's thought. It's best to think about it when you are sober.
Show respect. While this is true in any circumstance, it is especially true in a professional environment. Go the extra mile to be thoughtful, polite and understanding.
Don't take business trips together. Your chances of crossing the lines of Company policy get very muddy with this one.
Understand that no means no. If he/she says that they don't want the relationship, don't push it. Not only is that unprofessional, it's creepy.

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